How to get Confident Part 2
The previous Part was the introductory to know that what the
Confident is. Now this Part has some awesome tips to get Confident. Read
gradually and try to abide all the information. You will get Confident
utterly.
Analyze own self
It has some similarity to the earlier Part. First, let this
tell you that what is the meaning ‘Analyze own self’. It is a
consideration that tell you ‘Who are you? How much you have capability to do
something?’
It is the most essential point to get Confident. Whether you
understand yourself, your Confident will increase enormously. At the last, you
will find some additional help where this will describe ‘how to Analyze
and what should Analyze’.
Expectation
It is a great cause for losing Confident gradually. The
higher Expectation than the capability helps you to lose Confident and
Confident you will lose cyclically. That mean, suppose you are expecting, you
will stand first in the coming examination. However, you fail to stand first.
There are two possibilities to happen to you. One is you are trying more to
achieve your Goal. The second is you give up hope and lose Confident. For
losing Confident, you start to expect more like aerial castle & it is going
on. You have to understand what you can do in your niche. Do not expect more
than you have and stop to thinking aerial castle.
Forget the Past
It is a trick but logical. Past make us laugh again it also
make us crying. Whether you have a bad event on past time, you will be
frustrated when it will recollect to you. For being frustration, you lose
Confident. To crack like this occurrence you have to forget those past time
instantly (not forget the experience). I always tried to do like it and now it
has become a habit. Certainly, I am happy now. Because there is no tense on my
head.
Avoid the offence about you
It is another trick, which I follow. Some people have very
disgusting nature to insult other. If my friends insult me I insult back them.
However, if any respectable or influencer insult about you, what will you do?
It is complicated. You can avoid their offence.
Be positive
Probably you have heard it so many times. However, it need
for all people around the world. You should think yourself like ‘I can do this
or It definitely be done by me’. There was a great person who told that a
broken clock is also useful. Because they show right time two times a day.
Try to follow somebody who have Confident
You definitely recognize the people around you who have
Confident. Try to follow him/her and make a good relation with him/her. You can
follow the great person or read the book about their life.
Additional Help
Here you will learn about some guides to Analyze own self. I
will tell you step-by-step guide.
- Choose a time when you stay alone and really, you can think yourself. Nobody should disturb you at this time. You can go to sea beach or at the forest. It depends on you that where you feel better.
- Calm down your brain and think deeply.
- Try to remember your Childhood’s some sweetie event. It is a punch to help you to be positive.
- Now gradually think about your some achievement or success, which you thought that you were the winner. It does not matter that the achievement is giant or tiny. It is a matter that you have an energy/power/spirit that you can do a thing.
- Hold that in your brain.
- Repeat 1-5 everyday. After a few days, you will realize on you that you are getting Confident.
I hope you will improve your Confident level after reading this post. Thanks for reading it so carefully.
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